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Honouring Parents

Mother is a sacred shrine and the shrine of a great father!

Are you a bar for them?

Do you raise your voice in attended by the?

Do you consider them without consideration of mercy and love?

How to be honor your parents, and disobedience to avoid?

He says in his book: "And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him and dutiful to your parents" (1).

The residence of the parents and the matter is beyond human Drickh, no matter what effort the pen in the Statistics Major & Minor, it remains a minor Mnhsra Jellalhma for photography and their right to the children, and how not to be and why they are, and Emad and their corner for them to stay.

He has made parents all they were able to both material and moral support for care and upbringing of their children, and well-tolerated for the sake of that most troubles and difficulties and psychological stress and physical and can not be giving this to someone to give him a level that gives parents.

This is only considered Islam Attahma pursuant solemn holy Astojba him thanks and gratitude and it is obligatory for them rights over the children did not are obligatory for one to one at all, so that God Almighty century obey them and treat them kindly Powerful and unification directly, he said: "Worship Allah and join none with Him and dutiful to your parents" ( 2).

Because the credit to God is human after the parents, and thanks to care and be tender to them after thanks and praise of God, "and enjoined on man and his parents … to thank me and to your parents" (1).

Was considered the Holy disobedience to parents and obey them and to depart from sin and Marzathma Tjibra, where he was said Yahya Ibn Zakariya said: "The parents did not land a gigantic sticks" (2).

In a rights blessed, we find the right of the mother tongue of the Imam Ali bin Al-Hussein (p) the best expression and complete statement of sittings the greatness of the mother and Hmok sanctuary, in the words, and pictures Attaha accurately portray and detail say?: "The right of your mother know that it campaign which does not carry a one, and Otamtk from the fruit of her heart, does not feed a nobody, and had time Bsamaha and her sight and her hand and leg and hair and being announced and all the heart out upbeat mood, so the joy of Moplp (many Attayaha), potential for the Mkrohha and pain, weight and Gmha, even paid for you by the capacity and has driven you out to the land even but rested the saturation and the hungry are , and Tksok and naked, and Troyk and to suffer from, and will overshadow and sacrifice, and Tnamk Bbwsha, and Tlzzk sleep Borgaha, and her stomach you a bowl, lap you Eve, and her nipples you Sagaoua, and the same for you and meeting more, to start a free world and their response to you, Dunk, Vchla as much as it is estimated it only with the help of God Almighty. "

The highlight here, the importance of the right of the mother through the detail and the statement made by the imam? So make it larger rights in his blessed, and more in his statement, urged honor her and recommended the boy to thank them, as is the divine commandment: "And We have enjoined man to his parents and his mother and here they are … to thank me and to your parents" (2).

And so was the commandment of the Prophet (saw) a man came to him and said: O Messenger of Allaah, Apr?

A (r): "Your mother."

Said:? Then who?

A (r): "Your mother."

He said: Then who?

A (r): "Your mother."

He said: Then who?

A (r): "your father."

The father’s right:

It is equally the right of the father the importance and majesty of the mother’s right, it represents the parent and the Son is the section, has spent his life, youth, and dedicated his life hard and diligently to keep his family and life insurance-lined walls of his children, Vtab and willingly broke into the hardships and difficulties in this way, and in that Imam al-Zine El Abidine?: "The father’s teaching the right that you and your origin branch, and to otherwise you were not, whatever you see in yourself what you like, know that your father out of grace which you, and thank God and thank him for that much power and no strength except in God."

A person has to understand very well how to deal with his father so as not to be disobedient is unaware of it, he should venerate, respect and sensor subordination and submissiveness in his presence came in an interview from Imam Baqir?: "My father looked at the man and his son walking, and of the Son Mtke on the arm of the father He said: What is the word father in his life. "

Honoring one’s parents after death:

Not only honoring one’s parents for their lives were cut so that if the minimum cut mentioned, but of the duties and ordered them to revive the children mentioned by visiting their graves and read the light of their souls and giving them, and the establishment of boards of consolation to them all the time.

Also that they have the right land for them, inter alia, mentioned by the Messenger of Allah (saw) a man from his companions and said: O Messenger of Allah Is Left to the parents of Xi patching land I can do after their death?

The Messenger (saw) said: "Yes, they pray, and seek forgiveness for them, and save their terms, and to honor their friend, and kinship that not only reach them."

In an interview with Imam Sadiq?: "Pray with them, and their charity, and perform Hajj on their behalf, and fast with them, so that has made them such Zeid God’s righteousness and its links to a lot of good."

Disobedience to an end:

The ingratitude, and not rewarding charity are considered an evil morality, and the greater the beautiful and charity was Jehodahma more offense and the most terrible sin, and this measure stand on the threat of crime committed by disobeys his parents, even counting disobedience of sin positive to enter the fire because the ingrate with his conscience Amadhml no faith him no good in his heart and inhuman to him.

Therefore, Islam warns against disobedience to parents because of its implications and results, as through the Prophet Mohammad (PBUH): "Be righteous and confined to heaven, but I had to make do disobedient to the fire."

God has set the minimum level of disobeying one’s parents in his glorious book where the Almighty says: "Either they reach old age have one or both of not less than two F-Tnehrhma not say to them a word of disrespect" (1).

And so says the Messenger of Allah (PBUH): "If you knew God anything is lower than F for the forbidden, a minimum of disobedience."

So there is no license for a boy to say this word of words and acts like someone who looks at them sharply for example, refers to the Imam Al-Sadiq? In saying: "Who looks at his parents considered abhorrent and are wrongdoers it did not accept the God of his prayer."

Min obedience:

He painted God to man limits of obedience to his parents when a century worship and unification and keeping shirk kindness to them and obey them, has made the satisfaction of satisfaction, and arrived in obedience Btaathma said says of: "And lower unto them the wing of submission through mercy," (2).

And pointed out that the Prophet (PBUH) when he said: "The righteousness of the parents is better than praying and fasting, Hajj and Umrah, Islamic Jihad for the sake of God."

In the interpretation of verse: "And lower unto them the wing of submission through mercy," (3).

Imam al-Sadiq?: "Do not tire your eyes than viewing them only with compassion and paper, should not raise their voices above the voice, nor hand over their hands, do not provide Kdamanma."

In contrast, between God Almighty, who met him standing mandates obedience to parents in kind: "and that they strive to involve me what you have no knowledge there is no final destination in the world known" (4).

When it comes to the disobedience to God and shirk its stop a human at this point do not obey them in order because it is infallible, according to the modern: "There is no obedience to any creature in disobedience to the Creator."

But this depends solely on what constitutes sin God without the rest of the issues because the context of the verse continues the explanation: "destination in the world known" (1).

Iasehma not in the rest of things.

In the words of Jabir said: I heard a man say to Abu Abdullah?: "The parents of offenders, he said to me: She respects and honoring those who protect us and the Muslims."

Aftap parents and honoring them is a duty, whether they are believers or not, the things that God did not make the license: "Brin were honoring one’s parents or roues."

Other rights:

Prayer and commandment:

It is mentioned in the Koran two of the rights of parents:

First: pray for them and seems to be on the lips of more than a prophet calls to his parents, as is one of the commandments of God to man, where he says the words of Prophet Noah?: "Lord, forgive me, my parents and him who entereth my house believing," (2).

And on the lips of Abraham?: "Forgive me, my parents and the believers" (3).

Second:. where is the commandment God says: "If you wrote any of you attended the death that left the best of the bequest to parents and closest to kindness to the righteous" (4).

Our advice right on the believer and the first lead of the parents, according to the Quranic statement, to signify the importance of honoring parents and Ouselhma the rights in the event of his life and after his death through the legacy of physical and financial livelihood, and not spare them advice and guidance to the Slahama, do not forget to request permission each for negligently toward them in this life.

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انا يطلع ما يحمل عندي واحتاجه للمدرسسه ضروري ارجو المساعده

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مشكوووووورهـ والله يعطيك الف عافيه

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جزاكى الله كل الخير

قصة ظ‚طµظٹط±ط© ط¨ط§ظ„ط§ظ†ط¬ظ„ظٹط²ظٹ ط³ظ‡ظ„ط© مع ط§ظ„طھط±ط¬ظ…ط© بالعربي

ღ الحب ليس له حدود ღ

While Dad was polishing his new car,

بينما كان الأب يقوم بتلميع سيارته الجديدة

His 4 yr old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car.

إذا بالابن ذو الأربع سنوات يلتقط حجراً ويقوم بعمل خدوش على جانب السيارة

In his anger, Dad took the child’s hand & hit it many times, not

وفي قمة غضبه، إذا بالأب يأخذ بيد ابنه ويضربه عليها عدة مرات

Realizing he was using a wrench.

بدون أن يشعر أنه كان يستخدم ‘مفتاح انجليزي’ مفك يستخدمه عادة السباكين في فك وربط المواسير

At the hospital, his child said ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’

في المستشفى، كان الابن يسأل الأب متى سوف تنموا أصابعي؟

Dad was so hurt.

وكان الأب في غاية الألم

He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times.

عاد الأب إلى السيارة وبدأ يركلها عدة مرات

Sitting back he looked at the scratches, child wrote ‘I LOVE YOU DAD’

وعند جلوسه على الأرض، نظر إلى الخدوش التي أحدثها الأبن فوجده قد كتب ‘ أنا أحبك يا أبي ‘

Anger and Love has no limits…

ღ الحب والغضب ليس لهما حدود ღ

Best Wishes
ممانال إعجابي فااحببت أن أضعه بين ايديكم

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ماهي ط§ط³ط¦ظ„ط© ط§ظ„ظ…ظ‚ط§ط¨ظ„ط© ط§ظ„ط´ط®طµظٹط© ط¨ط§ظ„ط§ظ†ط¬ظ„ظٹط²ظٹ اسئلة المقابلة الشخصية ظ„ظ„ظ…ط¹ظ„ظ…ظٹظ† ، ظ…ط§ظ‡ظٹ اسئلة المقابلة الشخصية بالانجليزي اسئلة المقابلة الشخصية للمعلمين ، ماهي اسئلة المقابلة الشخصية بالانجليزي اسئلة المقابلة الشخصية للمعلمين ، ماهي اسئلة المقابلة الشخصية بالانجليزي اسئلة المقابلة الشخصية للمعلمين للشركات للمؤسسات لشركة الكهربة موبايلي الاتصالات الخزف ارامكو سابك الجميح تويوتا

المقابلة الشخصية هي أهم نقطة في مسيرة البحث عن الوظيفة
وهنا سوف أضع بعض الاسألة التي لاتخلو مقابلة شخصية من ورود بعضها إذا ماكان مجملها

1. احكي لي عن نفسك؟
اجب بإيجاز وركز على حياتك المهنية. ليس من المناسب ذكر علاقاتك وذكريات طفولتك وأسرتك, بل المطلوب ذكر تاريخ موجز لخلفيتك التعليمية وحياتك المهنية واهتماماتك الخاصة. اختم حديثك بأسباب اهتمامك بالحصول على الوظيفة.

2. لماذا تقدمت للحصول على هذه الوظيفة؟
قم باظهار الاهتمام وبرهن انك قمت بالبحث عن معلومات حول تلك الوظيفة وأنك تعلم متطلباتها عن طريق التحدث عن المهام التي قمت بها في وظيفتك السابقة او مجال دراستك التي تؤهلك للوظيفة. بوسعك القول أنك تريد العمل لشركة رائدة في مجال الاتصالات (على سبيل المثال) وأن شهادتك الجامعية في مجال الرياضيات تعطيك خلفية مناسبة للوظيفة. كما اذكر ما الذي تستطيع أن تضيفه للشركة.

3. ماذا تعلم عن الشركة؟
اذكر ما تعلمته عن الشركة خلال بحثك عن المعلومات بشأنها خلال تقاريرها السنوية والصحفة وسمعتها أو من موظفيها. استغل هذه الفرصة لمدح أصحاب العمل والرهنة لهم أنك قمت بالإعداد البحثي الجيد.

26. كيف كان آداءك الجامعي؟
حافظ على الإيجابية. ليس عيبا أن تقول أنك كنت تشارك كثيرا في الرياضة والأنشطة والحياة الاجتماعية، حيث أن أصحاب العمل لا يريدون تعيين إنسان آلي. اذكر المواد التي حصلت فيها على درجات جيدة حتى وإن كانت مادة او اثنين.

27. ما هي ساعات العمل التي تفضلها؟
يحب أصحاب العمل المرونة. اذكر انك مستعد للعمل حتى انتهاء المهمة. قم بذكر إية التزامات لديك مثل اضطرارك لإحضار أطفالك من المدرسة الساعة الثالثة والنصف. سيبدي أغلب أصحاب العمل المرونة إذا أبديت أنت المرونة أيضا.

28. هل لديك أسئلة لي؟
نعم. توجيه الأسئلة يظهر أنك مهتم. قم بتوجيه الأسئلة التي تظهر معلوماتك عن الشركة أو الوظيفة، وانك تخطط لمستقبل وأنك متعطش للتعلم.

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العيد الوطني بالانجليزي
The national day in Oman
The national day in Oman brings joy and happiness to Omanis. It is a moment of relishing the achievements of the renaissance which, Oman has witnessed under the wise leadership and far sighted vision of His Majesty Sultan Qaboos. As we are enthusiastically celebrating the 35th national day one cannot help but stretch his hands for almighty Allah to bestow His Majesty with prosperous years to come.
Not only the achievements of the renaissance could be measured in a materialistic sense but it is also evident through His Majesty’s undivided attention of empowering the citizens, and educating them for they are the goal of the development process and its beneficiaries. From the early s***e of the renaissance His Majesty has the vision of widely opening the door to educate both genders of his citizens. His words are still crystal clear in the hearts and minds of all the Omanis. " the most important thing is education, we will teach our children even under the shade of a tree." Today that mission became a tangible reality and there are various avenues for educating the Omani youth that ranges from schools, colleges, and universities. Besides the Omani students are sent on scholarships to pursue higher education. These efforts empowered the Omanis to confidently serve their country in all spheres of life. Omanization is put in motion were both Omani men and women are serving their country hand in hand with their expatriates colleagues. The Omani youth are called upon to play an active role. They are expected to make use of the opportunities which are put before them and equip themselves with educational background and gain the job skills to ensure bright career prospects.
Women on the other hand, are given their due attention. Not only they are assigned high government posts and allowed to contribute to the political participation in the country but are also given the opportunity to be entrepreneurs and run their own businesses.
Numerous areas were given importance such as health sector , social services, environment, and the economy at large.
One of the attracting aspect which impress the visitors about Oman is that it is an Oasis of peace and stability. Hence, visitors as well as the expatriate community in Oman feel that they are at home away from home because they enjoy a healthy relation with the place and its hospitable people. This reality was conveyed by Joseph A. Kechichian in his book "Oman and the World the emergence of an independent foreign policy", where we find him state that" I visited the Sultanate of Oman eight times during the past three years to research this book. During these visits, I witnessed significant changes, some of which I have described. What never changed, however, was the kindness for which Omanis are reputed. Omanis I was privileged to meet, from His Majesty Sultan Qaboos to the isolated farmer, from cosmopolitan high ranking government officials to eager schoolchildren, from tolerant and kind clerics to savvy taxi drivers, from generous village shaykhs to curious expatriates all welcomed me warmly into their homes and offices. It was a unique experience that I will remember for many years to come."
From the inception of the renaissance , His Majesty stroke a balance between modernization and tradition. While Industrialization, Tourism , and foreign investment are encouraged, they are not adhered to outside the parameter of the cultural perspective of the country. In her book- Modern Poetry and prose (1970-2017) Dr. Barbara Michalak-Pikulska stated " The Sultan being a totally modern ruler, displays enormous care in his treatment of culture and preservation of national traditions ."
The approval of "The Basic Status of the State" in 1996 marked a remarkable transformation towards a state of institutions and law. It has laid down the legal framework for the country and set in motion the needed guarantees for equality before the law.
During his annual "meet the people tour", His Majesty opens his heart to every citizen. He patiently listens to them and solve their demands. He keeps them updated with the future plans and discusses prevailing issues with them. It is an opportunity to follow up the implementation of the projects and instructs the accompanying Ministers to take the necessary procedures to solve the needs of the citizens.
On the external front Oman is known and recognized as a nation which has a firm principles such as non-intervention in the affairs of other countries, respect for international laws, strengthening relations with all the nations . Therefore, it is no surprise that Oman is an active member in most of the international organizations.
In fact His Majesty has established chairs in various western universities to enhance cultural dialogues and appreciation such as in the USA, the UK, and Australia. Besides establishing an The Sultan Qaboos award for environment which is under the supervision of the UNESCO.
The fact that Muscat is designated as the Cultural Capital of the Arab World in the year 2024 speaks for itself of the status that Oman enjoys among the nations of the region.
The Renaissance numerous achievements in Oman did not come in handy, rather the leadership of H.M the Sultan was faced with many teething problems. However with his broad mindedness and other qualities of leadership, His Majesty has undoubtedly nurtured a friendly atmosphere hence, enabled the Sultanate to enjoy an era of prosperity and earn undeterred credibility in the external arena. As a result became widely known for its love for humanity and peace. In fact his majesty was awarded the international peace award by the National Council on Arab Relations.
One can proudly say that Oman was actually reborn with His Majesty’s accession to power thirty five years back.

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friendship
This leads to a sense of familiarity, which is expected, but it can also give a sense of intimacy, even friendship, which is wrong, because what’s going on here is not friendship, although inside us many of the feelings that come from being a regular reader of a weblog are the same ones we feel as we are developing a friendship, in the world evolution designed us for. But this is not that world.

And with this comes a tough lesson, and unfortunately it seems, you only learn this by living, television doesn’t teach it, schools don’t teach it, and if you’re above a certain age, our parents didn’t teach it. You have to learn it by living, by thinking of someone as a friend, only to find out they don’t think of you as a friend. It can be devastating, I know, I’ve been there myself. But all the wishing, all the manipulation, all the determination, just serves to push the would-be friend further away. Because friendship is something you choose to do, you don’t do it out of a sense of obligation. To force someone to be a friend is to not have a friend.

It’s not just something that happens with blogs, celebrity of any kind yields a false intimacy, they’ve made dozens of movies about it. The star is objectified. In the presence of a fan, the star is not a human, it’s an object, it behaves the way the fan wants it to behave. It signs the autograph, it smiles, it thanks. Stephen King wrote a horror story about this called Misery in which the pro***onist is bound, held hos***e and tortured by a fan. There’s an awful DeNiro movie, where he plays a fan who’s determined to be friends with a star, played by Jerry Lewis. It’s one of the few movies I’ve walked out on, it’s so hard to watch.

I learned a lot about friends when I got sick in 2024. I learned that a friend is someone I trust to be with me when I am at my weakest and most vulnerable. And they are people who, no matter how painful it is to see, are willing to be with me when I am so helpless and weak. If I would trust my life with you, and vice versa, we are friends. It’s not about whether you are trustworthy, or whether you are friendly, it’s the actual act of trust that is the basis of friendship. If I trust you to be truthful, then you’re a friend. If I find I must be careful how I say things, then it’s something other than friendship.

Friendship is not a state of mind, it’s an act. It’s something you do, it’s not about whether you’re good or not, it’s not a reflection of you, it’s a balanced relationship between people. That doesn’t mean it’s always balanced at every moment. Sometimes you “need a friend” and other times it’s the other way. It’s a trust that’s returned. When I was younger and thought I was in love, a friend said it’s not love unless it’s returned. Friendship and love are not quite the same thing, although there’s a lot of love around friendship. I learned that love isn’t even something about two people, it’s a state of being for one person. You aren’t in love, you are love. You are, whether you acknowledge it or not. The heart that’s pumping blood through your body is an act of love, 24 hours a day, whether you’re Mother Teresa or Adolf Hitler. (Sorry for the extreme example.)

There’s a world of difference between being a friend and being a fan. I’ve heard people who I’ve never met say we’re friends. And then of course when I do something they don’t like, I’ve betrayed the supposed friendship. They’re living in a dreamworld. The more popular my weblog has become the more people have this dream. It’s very puzzling to be the object in the middle of this swirl of emotions, I say object because my job isn’t to be truthful, my job is to be who you think I should be. Of course that’s not friendship, that’s torture.

In 1997 I wrote: “When a friend changes you can find the bond that’s connecting you at a deeper level. The surface stuff isn’t a good thing to depend on. Physical bodies change as they grow. So do emotional bodies and intellectual ones. Take a deep breath. People move, life is more like a wild dance than a ceremony. You just can’t tell what’s coming next.”

So if you find yourself trying to coerce someone into not changing, then dear reader, that is not friendship, that is coercion

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